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#Transgender: Aspire to be a Ladylike #Transwoman


What do you think of when you hear the word “ladylike?”

Beauty, poise, and class? Or outdated ideas of femininity?

To me, being ladylike means being classy, gracious, and elegant. No matter what your idea of femininity might be, I’m sure we can agree that those are great traits to have.

So what should you do to present yourself as a lady? I think the best way to answer that is to talk about what NOT to do…

Here are 5 common mistakes that make you less ladylike:
Mistake #1: Showing too much skin

Being ladylike definitely doesn’t mean being a buttoned-up prude. However, good taste goes a long way when presenting yourself as a woman.

It can be tricky to know how much is too much, so here are some simple guidelines to keep in mind:

    Show off one part of your body and keep the rest covered. A little mystery is sexy, so show off your legs, breasts, or back – just not all at once.

    Flaunt the right amount of cleavage. A good rule of thumb is to reveal 20%-40% of your bust. This gives you sex appeal, while keeping it classy.

    Try the finger length test. To determine the proper skirt length, stand up straight and put your arms to your side. If your fingertips fall past the hem of your skirt, it’s too short.

Mistake #2: Not minding your manners

 Good manners and etiquette are dying arts in today’s world. Saying “please” and “thank you” are simple ways to elevate your ladylike status.

The rules of etiquette can be a bit more confusing. Here are a couple great articles from the oh-so-ladylike Lauren Conrad on etiquette matters you might face on an outing:

    Ladylike Laws: Restaurant Dining
    Ladylike Laws: How to Hold Your Drinks

Mistake #3: Being sloppy with your grooming


Grooming can make or break your feminine image. In fact, studies show that grooming has more of an impact on your attractiveness than the physical features you were born with.

Are your grooming habits up to par? If this area needs work, be sure to see my article on 5 feminine grooming habits not to ignore.

Mistake #4: Losing control


One of the most important qualities of a lady (and of any respectable human being) is self control – especially when you’re out in public.

In other words, no diva acts, angry outbursts, or public displays of drunkenness. It seems obvious, but if celebrity tabloids are any indication, it’s not.

Mistake #5: Poor posture or body language


Finally, don’t forget that your posture and body language communicate more about you than anything you say. Here are some major no-nos:

    Biting your nails or playing with your hair
    Not making eye contact
    Crossing your arms

Do you aspire to be ladylike?

So what do you think of the term “ladylike,” anyway? Do you find it outdated and offensive towards women? Or a feminine quality worth aspiring to?

As always, I’d love to hear from you in the comments below!

Angel Bea

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