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Communication

First, communication is the key. You need to be able to ask for what you want. If you can't open your mouth and talk with your partner about sex, he is not going to magically intuit that you want to fuck him up the ass with a dildo. Take a good long look at your relationship first. Do your very best to practice Dan Savage's GGG - Good, Giving and Game.  "Think 'good in bed,'  'giving equal time and equal pleasure,' and 'game for anything—within reason.'" We are not just talking about your man's willingness to explore pegging with you...we are also talking about the state of your relationship with him...think about it. And before you blurt it out there that you want to pay his lovely ass some special attention, please read the rest of this article!

Trust


Okay, ladies - Trust. Is. Huge.

I am talking about your man's ability to trust you not to out him. This is a bigger factor than you could ever imagine! For younger men whose generation is more open to and accepting of different types of sexual play, this may not be as big of a deal. But for men, say 30 and up, it can be the single largest factor holding them back from exploring pegging. Why? Because societal repercussions can be severe for men who enjoy pegging.

And even if they have a loving, intimate relationship with the woman of their dreams...what might happen if things don't work out and they part? Will she tell? Will their circle of friends find out that he likes to get fucked? Will his friends or coworkers judge him? All those people likely have the same silly misconceptions about pegging that most people do and they might not look at it as just another passionate way to have sex with your partner.

Some men decide this is too big of a risk to take; getting outed. Perhaps because of their career, their religion or perhaps they live in a very conservative community. So the challenge is for you women to swear on whatever you hold sacred that you will never, ever out your guy. And keep that promise no matter what.



You know how men supposedly brag about the sex they are having? Well I'm sure there are some men who do...but the majority actually don't. Ask around if you don't believe me. They might make crude comments about the waitress or the woman that just walked by, but they do not talk about the details of the sex they are having with their significant other.

You know how women supposedly talk about....everything? That is actually true. Women do talk about the details. And men know that. So here is my advice around pegging. Just simply don't ever tell. Make pegging a secret thing between you and your partner that you will never tell anyone, even your best girlfriend, even if you've had too much to drink. Make it a sacred thing between you and your guy so he can relax and really enjoy it without worrying about what will happen if anyone finds out...because he knows no one ever will.



So how can you reassure him that you won't tell even if you don't stay together? You make a big deal out of it. You tell him sincerely, to his face, making sure the timing is right (special dinner, just after sex, romantic moment, no one else around), swearing to him that it will be just between you two...forever. Another idea...consider giving him some compromising pictures of you naked that he can put up on the internet if you out him. That way you are both operating on trust.

There is also the kind of trust he needs to allow you to play with such a sensitive part of his body. Anal play is quite intimate. You are asking him to open up and be vulnerable, completely vulnerable. If you have received anal sex before you know how important technique is and taking thinks slow and easy. If you have not received anal sex before - please read up on it because ass play is best done after educating yourself!  Here is a basic educational article for women who are beginners at male anal play.




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