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#Transwoman: Sex With a #Transsexual #Woman

Sex with a transsexual woman is a literal minefield in a number of ways. In this article, I am going to speak frankly to men about making love with the transsexual female. Why a sex article? This site is about trans women and relationships with men. In most relationships, sex plays a major role.
This information has been gathered from many sources. I have solicited comment from many on the various aspects of sex with the transsexual woman, and of course have drawn from my own experience as well. THIS ARTICLE IS SEXUALLY EXPLICIT! If you don’t wish to read such material, hit your browser’s back button now. Also, sexual slang is liberally used in this article. After all, it’s written to educate and inform the average guy, not university professors, so be ready for it.
I’m not going to discuss how to initially seduce a TS or entice one into having sex. We’re making the assumption that both have already decided to yank off their clothes while dashing madly to the bedroom. And so here we go.
Topping the man.

Let’s dispel one myth right away. Transsexuals are women. Women are generally not the aggressors in bed. Women want to be “taken,” they usually aren’t the ones to initiate sex by pulling their men into the bedroom. There’s plenty of anecdotal evidence to support this notion. Check out the covers of romance novels in any bookstore, for example. Look into a woman’s eyes – notice how they draw you in?
If you’re a “bottom” male hoping that a pre-op or non-op transsexual will bend you over and fuck you, well you can forget about it. Women, transsexual or otherwise, generally do not want to fuck you. They want you to fuck them. As a TS lady friend expressed it to me recently, “Women receive, they do not project.”
For the guy looking to be “topped,” expect to have to pay an escort for that service. That is mostly what they specialize in. If paying for a romp in bed isn’t your style, it is very doubtful you will find it anywhere else in the TS community. Cross dressers, however, are a different matter. These are not women, they are men enjoying a dress-up fetishistic fantasy. You may find what you want with one of them.
Initial thoughts she’s having.

If this is her first time making love as a woman, she’s probably terrified. If she’s pre-op, she’s worried that you might want to play with that yucky male appendage that she hasn’t yet converted into a vagina. She may not want you to touch it at all. If she responds with an erection, she may be very embarrassed, and also very conflicted. How many women want to respond like a male? Not many. If she’s like most pre-ops, she would prefer that you pretend it doesn’t exist.
She’s done the orifice inventory. She knows you want more than just a hand job. If she’s never put her mouth on a man’s organ before, she’s no doubt wondering what that will feel and taste like, whether she will gag (or worse), and she’s hoping that you’re very clean. Dude, if you haven’t showered in a couple days, get it done immediately. And make sure you’re squeaky clean before every sexual encounter. And clip your nails, too.
Is she newly post-op or new to vaginal intercourse? She may be concerned about how tight she is. It takes time and experience for that vaginal opening and canal to loosen up. She may be concerned that she’s so tight that it will be painful for you. If you have a very long or thick penis, she may be worried about being able to take you at all.

If she’s new at giving blowjobs, she’s probably hoping she won’t appear incompetent at it, bite you, or inadvertently snag your shaft on a tooth. If she’s never been butt fucked before, she no doubt wonders how painful it will be.
She’s probably wondering if you’ve passed a recent test for sexually transmitted diseases, including but not limited to HIV. Not tested? Go get it done and hang on to any documentation provided by the testing center.
She’s probably wondering whether you will be willing to practice safe sex. If for no other reason than to help her relax, be prepared to do so. She does not want to ruin the mood by having to argue with you about it, and she certainly doesn’t want to risk catching a serious disease.
In short, the TS new to sex as a woman may very well be worried or frightened. Don’t be surprised.

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