Sex with a transsexual woman is a literal minefield in a number of ways. In this article, I am going to speak frankly to men about making love with the transsexual female. Why a sex article? This site is Longevity and Wellness. In most relationships, sex plays a major role.
There's something you need to discuss with your lady before it goes any further. It's about that dick.
Are you a straight man having your first sexual encounter with a pre-op TS? She probably expects that you won't show any interest at all in that dick. If you feel the same way, great, and it would be useful to say so. Then just ignore it and move on. If you find that you can't get aroused because of the sight of that dick, end the session. Either get to know her better to lower your anxiety level, or say this isn't for you and terminate the relationship.
Are you a man very much into pleasing your female partner with cunnilingus but are staring at a penis instead? You could be pretty much straight or very bisexual, but if you haven't yet bolted for the exit, congratulations. It's time to be forthright and honest with her.
You might explain that orally pleasing your partner is important to you, and you're OK with touching, stroking or sucking her dick (whether or not it's your preferred thing to do), but you don't want to embarrass her or make her angry. Let her know that all you want to do is give her great pleasure. If she's capable of experiencing that with her penis and is cool with you touching, stroking or sucking it, go ahead.
And ladies, it would be an error to assume that if he's willing to touch or go down on you that he's done it before, so don't assume that he's bisexual simply because of that. Do remember that even gay men had first-time encounters.
If you've never sucked a dick before, you might want to ask her to give you feedback on how you're doing. And if you're suddenly feeling nauseated for engaging in what your family and all your friends would label a very homosexual act, for God's sake find the bathroom in a big hurry and kneel before the porcelain throne.
Did she say she doesn't want you touching it? Then don't and do something else, instead.
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Oral sex: Her going down on you.
There's an old joke that goes, "There's no such thing as a bad blowjob." That's not true, but if it's apparent that she needs some guidance, turn it into a teachable moment. What matters with a blowjob isn't the level of expertise, it's the willingness to learn. Be patient, tell her what you want, tell her when it feels good, and offer encouragement. Put on a little show when she does something perfectly: Rotate your hips and groan loudly.
When you're approaching orgasm, it would be a good idea to ask if she wants you to cum in her mouth, or on her face, boobs or whatever. It's always a good idea to tell her when you're about to blow your load, so she can be ready for it, obviously.