Keep the Right Perspective as You GrowI spent almost twenty years living the life of a part-time transgender girl. Some of my best memories are from those times.
Nearly all new gals are understandably enamored with improving the Looking portion of their feminine expression. Let’s face it: vanity is a byproduct of being a chick. *Smile*
However, I strongly advise you strive to maintain balance amongst time you dedicate to Living and Loving as a transgender woman, as well.
These three fundamental L’s form the basis for your happiness now - and in the future. No L is any more important than the other on this three legged stool that creates transgender happiness.
Just remember: the goal is not really about understanding these desires, learning to look more feminine - or even becoming a lovely woman.
It’s much simpler. It’s about embracing joy and happiness - each and ever day of your life - no matter where you find it.