1) The basics – Madam Palm and her five lovely daughters
masturbation: sex with someone you loveMost people learn pretty early on that their hand is a capable friend with benefits. It’s natural, effective and whole lot of fun.
Yet many guys still get stuck thinking that the best way to masturbate is simply as follows:
Switch on a movie.
Grip penis gently but firmly in your strong hand.
Move up and down repeatedly at lightning speed.
Ejaculate into a tissue.
Return to the paused video game.
This is of course one of the most satisfying masturbation techniques known to mankind.
The speed and pressure you can apply brings about a satisfying orgasm. But you can add much more variety as you’ll see in the next few tips.
2) Don’t forget Madam Palm’s twin sister: 4 ways to masturbate using your other hand
two hands are better than oneEven at this basic level, you can still spice things up by using your other hand. Here are some ideas:
Try only using your other hand.
Try using both hands at the same time. If you can put them one next to the other on your shaft, then lucky for you and any girl you meet. But if not, you can try placing the penis in between both palms pressed together.
You can use one hand to move up and down the shaft while the other plays with the head of your penis.
Wringing is a great double-handed technique. Imagine wringing the water out of a cloth by squeezing your hands in opposite directions. Just be a bit more gentle with yourself!
3) Don’t leave your balls hanging
2 balls. Your balls are more than just an odd shaped storage facility. They are an erogenous zone which you can use to heighten your orgasms.
It’s up to you to work out the best way to masturbate by including your testicles; all guys are different, but here are some suggestions:
Pull them slightly downwards while masturbating.
Try caressing, stroking or tickling them – experiment to see what and where feels good.
Try just holding them in a light but firm grip with the other hand.
There is another good reason to spend some quality time with your balls. If you know what they feel like normally, you can look out for any unusual lumps – something all guys should do on a regular basis.
4) It’s not just women that have multiple erogenous zones diagram of the male and female erogenous zonesIf you think the best way to masturbate is all about your penis, and maybe your balls, then think again.
It’s a popular belief that only women are blessed with multiple erogenous zones. But the truth is that men are more sensitive than you might think.
For example try touching your nipples in the way that you would a woman’s. Experiment with different strokes, pressure and movements.
Try caressing the inside of your thighs or your stomach. If there’s anywhere that you know you are sensitive, don’t be afraid to explore yourself further with touch.
Some guys will be more sensitive than others in different areas, so it’s up to you to find out what works for you. There are no rules, so get to know your own body and find out what floats your boat.